Labels, labels, labels...

So...Mike thinks Judy's fine. He thinks we just have a crabby baby because that's our luck.  He hates the labeling! I told him the other night how I thought OT would be good for her.  He made fun of me because I was using "acronyms" now!  He said he wasn't educated yet on all the acronyms for all the labels we are going to put on our child.  UGH! I know he really thinks that she's just crabby, but I told him, this is not normal.  He said it's our normal.  UHH! Annoying!! I told Michael that he was going to make the blog because I was so mad at him!! We weren't really fighting! We were actually laughing about it and all evening he was making up acronyms for everything.  I am kind of bummed though, because I do believe she has SPD.  I guess it doesn't matter if he agrees or not, we both will still do everything we can to help her feel better.  I guess he just hates the labels.  This is every reason why he never wanted a 3rd child- he knew the baby would be crabby and hard.  And...he was right!  It's such a bummer. Gracie was extremely colicky for 4 months- I mean never stopped crying.  Forever this has changed Michael on his view of having children.  And go figure, we have our 3rd and she's beyond colic! UGH!!!  I could just scream.  She is however doing better still.  The behavioral psych said something interesting.  She wonders if the Valium we gave Judy for that short period of time DID give Judy some relief.  Because the day after I stopped giving it to her, she's been a different kid ever since.  It's interesting and something to consider.  That Valium might have actually helped?! Who knows?!  Just pray this good streak continues and that Michael can accept the labels we find Judy has. Thanks friends! Love you all!!